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Last update: June 2023

Situated in Petersfield, Southdowns Manor is a countryside wedding venue in Hampshire, England. This historic manor is located in the heart of Southdowns National Park and dates back to the nineteenth century. Reimagined as a luxury boutique hotel, classic elegance combines modern interiors and contemporary twists. With views of the idyllic English countryside, a wisteria walkway, and an outdoor gazebo, this is a picturesque destination for secluded and peaceful wedding weekends.

Facilities and Capacity

Southdowns Manor is a versatile venue that facilitates both intimate gatherings and large wedding parties. Licensed for civil ceremonies, to-be-weds can choose to exchange vows by the outdoor gazebo or in any one of the suites indoors. Alternatively, you can plan a religious service at the Grade I listed St George’s Church in nearby Trotton. The Sussex Suite is suited to micro weddings for 40 loved ones. This event space is also ideal for informal cocktails and canapes after the ceremony. The Conservatory is another choice location for elopements and drinks parties. For larger weddings, The Banqueting Suite accommodates up to 150 friends and family members. This upscale ballroom has retained its traditional charm while boasting a bright and modern aesthetic. Here, buffet service or formal plated meals are served, followed by dancing, DJ, and live entertainment. Characterised by silk drapes, ambient fairy lights, and polished wooden floors, you can decorate the Banqueting Suite according to your chosen theme and colour scheme.

Services Offered

An in-house coordinator curates weddings in keeping with each couple’s tastes and preferences. Their dedicated team oversees setup, cleanup, and service throughout the day. On-site catering is supplied courtesy of the culinary team. They create menus according to individual requests, from formal dining to buffet-style servings. The event personnel offers wedding packages, with each plan designed to reflect the varying needs of their cherished clients. You can schedule a personal consultation and venue visit to learn more about the dedicated staff’s wedding services and Covid-19-friendly strategies.

Accommodation

Newlyweds can relax in the luxury honeymoon suite during their time at Southdowns Manor. This exquisite suite exudes French-country elegance and is complete with vintage furnishings, bay windows, and a four-poster bed. There are 14 ensuite bedrooms at this location, making it suitable for weekend weddings surrounded by your nearest and dearest. This boutique hotel can be hired exclusively for the duration of your wedding celebrations. Guests can assemble for a delicious breakfast the morning after and share highlights of your special day.

Frequently asked questions

Venue Type:

In the Country
Outdoor License

Ceremony Options:

Civil Ceremony Licence

Dining Options:

Seated Meal Facilities
Alcohol Licence
Buffet Meal Facilities
In House Catering

Evening Entertainment:

Entertainment Licence
Evening Reception Facilities
DJ Facilities

Overnight Accommodation:

Overnight Accommodation for Wedding Couple
Overnight Accommodation for Guests

Venue Staff Assistance:

Wedding Coordinator

Other Features:

Exclusive Use
Car Parking
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100% Recommended by couples

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Gemma
Gemma B. Married on 29/05/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Just WOW, perfect day!

We had a list of 10 venues to visit but the minute we viewed Southdowns we knew it was the one for us! To have the whole space just for us was fantastic.

The whole process was so slick. No question too silly, and everyone so helpful.

The staff were just amazing, nothing was too much trouble and full of smiles. Becky was fantastic and smoothed over any minor issues. If you want a stress free wedding with everything included, this is for you!

The venue is stunning, we had our dream outdoor ceremony and it was so emotional.

The food was gorgeous and so much of it. We had hot canapés with Pimms on the lawn, then Afternoon Tea and then a Pizza buffet later. They created our perfect vision and accommodated so many dietary requests.

The day was everything we dreamed of & our guests were blown away!
Hannah
Hannah E. Married on 15/01/2022
5 out of 5 rating

January wedding

I was not the most laid back bride ever, and dealing with me and multiple changes due to deployment, Covid, restrictions and just general panic can’t have been easy, but Lia and the team at Southdowns did an incredible job of organising our reception and everything flowed perfectly - even when the groom got the timings muddled! A huge thank you, and big recommendation for this wonderful venue!
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Zoe C. Married on 15/09/2014
5 out of 5 rating

Can't recommend highly enough!

Would definitely recommend Southdowns (and have!) to anyone looking for an exclusive venue. The staff couldn't be more helpful and the venue is gorgeous! The weather decided to disagree with our plan to have an outdoor ceremony but everything was moved inside quickly and easily! The extra bonus was the fact that everything was included in the quote, no added extras (unless you request/want them) unlike other venues we viewed. Would love to do it all over again and we have been back for the dinner evenings that are held!
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Samantha Y. Married on 30/06/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Best Wedding Venue

Absolutely the best wedding venue we found. Did everything we wanted and more.
Beautiful grounds, beautiful inside decoration. Staff was amazing, friendly, helpful, organised and professional.
The venue had rooms for Bridal party and guests with breakfast the following morning and dog friendly.
Everything we wanted, needed and could imagine in one place. Simply Perfect.
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Mr And M. Married on 16/02/2023
5 out of 5 rating

We honestly had the best day of our lives!

WOW what a day we had!! It was absolutely incredible, everything we have ever dreamt of and more! The stunning venue, the delicious food, the perfect details, the friendly staff, the amazing efforts that you all put in is brilliant. We honestly had the best day of our lives! From first seeing the venue and booking it in 2019, we knew that Southdowns Manor was the dream venue for us and it certainly lived up to it’s expectations! We cannot thank Lia enough for everything she did for us. She was always at the end of every email with all the answers, reassuring us right up to every detail on the day checking in that everything was okay. It certainly wouldn’t have run as smoothly without her. She is by far the best of the best and we are so grateful for everything she did to ensure our day was magical!!Thank you again from the new Mr and Mrs Betteridge


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Lizzie Married on 04/02/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect, beautiful day

Had a perfect wedding day at Southdowns Manor. The venue was stunning. The staff run everything immaculately so the whole day was smooth and stress free. Nothing was too much trouble and they thought of everything to make it really special. The food was amazing.
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Jordon Married on 03/02/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Truly amazing

We could not fault any of the staff the food or the grounds it was truly amazing


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Jess Married on 12/07/2021
5 out of 5 rating

12th July 2021

We booked our wedding at this venue as we feel in love with it the moment we saw it online. Due to covid we were concerned that our wedding plans would be put on hold but the lovely team at Southdowns made sure to help us in any way possible, Lucy helped tremendously with keeping my anxiety under wraps. The day was beyond perfect, thank you very much!!!
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Fiona M. Married on 12/07/2021
5 out of 5 rating

As a supplier, I would recommend 100%

As a wedding photographer (and in hospitality management in a past career) I see A LOT of wedding venues. Some are just shockingly awful, rude, unprofessional and just downright obstructive to what a couple actually want from their day. Thankfully, Southdowns Manor IS NOT on my naughty list (yep, I do have one!)

With every wedding I have shot there, and the diversity of the couples days, SDM have gone above and beyond to ensure the day runs smoothly and perfectly! The feedback I have had from my couples at how SDM have navigated unexpected & unavoidable issues (Hello Covid 19) has been superb, and their communication, professionalism and kind humanity with their couples is through the roof! I'm totally confident that any couple choosing SDM will have their expectations exceeded.

As a supplier, the way we are treated on the day is often a direct representation at how a venue treat a client.... and they knock our socks off! There are always smiles, great communication & flexibility to ensure all client expectations are managed and exceeded with the multi-service teams that are often working on a wedding day. We always walk away feeling valued, respected and very well looked after. I have to admit to feeling very pleased when I book a couple who are marrying there as I know the standards are super high, the vibe is great and the client is always at the centre.
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Sam P. Married on 10/07/2021
5 out of 5 rating

They made our day so special

From planning to delivery of our wedding the team at Southdowns manor done a fantastic job.

Unfortunately our wedding had to be cancelled and moved due to the pandemic, but the venue could not have been any more supportive, all they were concerned about was making our day special. Through these tough times the Southdowns team really showed how amazing they were.

The day itself was just amazing, one we will never forget. Lia who planned and run our wedding done a fantastic job! Natalie from the sales teams was also supportive throughout and great to deal with when booking our wedding. The staff on the day were also great!

The food here is also amazing, from start to finish every course was lovely. We are big foodies so for us this was very important.

What we also love about Southdowns is that you have the venue to yourself, the grounds here are lovely and well maintained.

If you are thinking of booking a wedding here, you’d be silly to not. It really is a wonderful venue run by the most amazing people that just want to give you a great day.

Thanks again to the Southdowns team for making our day so memorable 👏

Sam & Victoria
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Rebecca R. Married on 19/04/2019
4.8 out of 5 rating
This venue is just amazing, my day was so perfect. The run up to the wedding was amazingly easy and calm as was the day everything went to plan. Not one single hiccup, all thanks to Kate, our wedding coordinator. Nothing was to much trouble. It was the most perfect day and we had so many compliments on our venue after by guests. Would 100% recommend.
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Sarah-Jane W. Married on 02/02/2019
5 out of 5 rating

A day to remember

Kate our wedding planner couldn’t do more for us! She was amazing and made our day so special. Her attention to detail was fantastic and the day went so smoothly. I felt that I didn’t have to worry about anything as I knew that the day was in the best of hands.

The wedding venue itself was perfect. Having the two separate bars was great and the extra rooms was so beneficial, especially as one room was turned into a play room for the copious amount of children we had to party with us.

Thank you to the whole of the team!


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Jennifer E. Married on 24/06/2018
4.8 out of 5 rating

Perfect venue

Southdowns Manor was the perfect wedding choice for us. Accessible from London or the south, great value for money and was in a stunning location. So many of our guests commented on how beautiful the venue and it’s surroundings were. Southdowns were great at going through all the options with us and our wedding planner was amazing. They were happy to answer our questions, advise on suppliers etc and were so great on the day. Would highly recommend!!
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Josh Married on 20/03/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Overall was a dream come true!

We fell in love with Southdowns Manor when we first came to view the venue. We were greeted by Natalie who was incredibly welcoming and helpful. The booking process was easy and throughout the planning process we were given many different options to enhance our wedding day. There was a slight delay in communication with the planning team initially, but this was soon resolved and communication was great since!

On the week of the wedding, coronavirus really affected our day and we were not even sure that the wedding would still go ahead. We phoned frequently and was given detailed up to date information, to keep us informed about the situation.

On the day of the wedding, Southdowns Manor went above and beyond to make us feel special throughout the day. There were really lovely touches to the day such as a swan pudding and a personalised cake knife! The venue looked stunning and was exactly how we had wanted the day to be! The food was delicious, we had many guests complementing the sticky toffee pudding.
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Rhian Married on 29/02/2020
5 out of 5 rating

We would thoroughly recommend..

Everything from receiving the brochure for the first time, to our initial first meeting , booking and planning meetings, has run smoothly and to perfection. From our Wedding Planner Kate and initial meeting with Natalie we ended up with the perfect wedding which we will remember always with great fondness. The catering team, events team, housekeeping team were all fantastic, friendly and helpful. We would thoroughly recommend anyone to get married here. Winter or Summer, it really doesn't matter, you will get the wedding you've always dreamed of. Many thanks to all at Southdowns Manor.
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